"What walks on four legs at dawn, two legs at noon, and three at dusk?""
- "A human, who crawls on all fours at birth, walks on two legs during youth, and leans on a cane during old age." - Planescape: Torment, from the Riddle of the Sphinx of Greek mythology, answered by Oedipus
Life changes are the most emotional events of human life: birth, relationships, breakups, marriage, death of family members and friends
The Life Events and Difficulties Schedule is a psychological measurement of the stressfulness of life events. It was created by Brown and Harris in 1978. Instead of accumulating the stressfulness of different events, as was done in the Social Readjustment Rating Scale by Holmes and Rahe, they looked at individual events in detail. The schedule is made up of an interview by which as much contextual information around the event as possible is collected. The event is then rated by "blind" raters using this contextual information.
Critics of this method note the fact that the impact of the independent variable, the event itself, is measured by evaluating it using mediating and moderating variables.
Emotional baggage Edit
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Emotional baggage is an everyday expression that correlates with many varied but similar concepts within social sciences, self-help movements, and other fields: its general concern is with unresolved issues of an emotional nature, often with an implication that the emotional baggage is detrimental. Invariably, it is rooted in life events.
In adult life, emotional baggage comes to the fore in relationships in two main forms. There is firstly the (often negative) expectations created by previous relationships, perhaps of an abusive nature - a kind of bondage to the past that can contaminate new and potentially more positive interactions.
In the second place, however, there may be a recurrent bringing-up of the past history of the current relationship, with the result that minor problems in the present become overloaded by negative currents from earlier times which cannot be resolved or set aside for good.
Behind adult problems, however, there may be deeper forms of emotional baggage rooted in the experiences of childhood, but continuing to trouble personality and behaviour within the adult.
Men and women may be unable to leave the pain of childhood behind, and look to their partners to fix this, rather than to address more adult concerns.
Cultural and parental expectations, and patterns of behaviour drawn from the family of origin and stilll unconsciously carried around, will impact on a new marriage in ways neither partner may be aware of.
Similarly, as parents, both sexes may find their own childhood pasts hampering their efforts at more constructive child-rearing, whether they repeat, or seek to overcompensate for, parental patterns of the past.
Wikipedia:Psychotherapy addresses such emotional baggage of the client under the rubric of Wikipedia:transference, exploring how early development can create an internalised 'working mode' through which all subsequent relationships are viewed; while the concept of Wikipedia:countertransference on the therapist's part acknowledges that they too can bring their own emotional baggage into the analytic relationship.
- In Wikipedia:From Dead to Worse the heroine gives her boyfriend the push on realising that his first priority will always be caring for his half-mad were-tiger mother: '"He had too much baggage....Gosh, I never thought I'd catch myself saying that. Especially considering my own"'.
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